Have you found it difficult to delay ejaculation? Because if you’re like the thousands of guys who have searched for a cure and found nothing that works for them, then your luck is about to change. Because I am going to give you useful information that you can use tonight to delay ejaculation that does not require you to buy anything unlike everyone else and the reason I am giving you this valuable information is because I have been dealing with men in your life for years. situation and knows the pain and silent suffering that this causes.
Now first things first, “This is not your fault” and therefore all your attempts to delay ejaculation and last longer for your lover where you falter and end up inadvertently disappointing the woman you love are definitely not yours. guilt even though this burden seems to be on you. back.
And to explain why this is not your fault, I assume you have tried your best and several premature ejaculation cures on the market, which promised to help:
The normal cures that everyone probably lost a lot of confidence and self-esteem, trying with disappointing results, are:
1. Natural remedies, which are normally understood as resistance training exercises in an attempt to build your tolerance for sexual stimulation and develop your ability to control it.
2. Medications and this is a broad topic as it covers, herbal pills, non-herbal pills (including SSRIs), retardant creams, and other topical solutions.
They all claim to be the knees of the bees when it comes to helping you last in bed, but they probably made you feel worthless and unable to last as long as your partner, or longer than normal. And I’ve gotten countless emails from men asking “why them, why don’t these products work for them like they’re supposed to?”
Besides being over the top, these products fail for two reasons. The first is that they were never as good as they should be, I’ll explain more in a dedicated article at a later date. Second, they largely failed because they never took the human aspect into account. We have feelings, we are emotional creatures after all. And our anxiety, especially when it comes to performance pressure, plays a big role in delaying ejaculation, and this fear of failure, the humiliation that comes with it, can easily lead us to despair.
The problem here is that if you have this anxiety towards sex, then you won’t act exactly the way you want because this self-imposed pressure ruins the relaxed mindset needed to delay ejaculation. And unfortunately this acts like a viscous cycle, the more you fail, the more anxiety builds up and therefore the more difficult it is to break this cycle and really take control over delayed ejaculation.
And the aforementioned cures will disappoint you because they fail to reduce this pressure to perform which then increases to overwhelming levels, therefore your arousal spirals out of control, leaving you with absolutely nothing you can do to prevent premature ejaculation. This makes this vicious circle intensify, and so it continues.
So getting around this vicious cycle is a problem, one that requires a bit of rethinking to overcome:
That’s why I’m going to tell you a simple psychological trick to help you end this downward spiral and get on your way, delaying ejaculation. And this trick comes from talking to men who, like us, have trouble delaying ejaculation but unlike us; It just doesn’t matter how long they last, because her lover always has a good time, as strange as it sounds, it’s true.
Actually, these ladies don’t just have fun, they have a lot of fun and they get everything they ever wanted from sex and they see their man as a master in the bedroom.
How do these guys leave this impression on their lover even though they can’t last? Because they know how to make their lovers fall in love, excite and stimulate them to orgasm without needing to penetrate them. And because they can’t last long, they penetrate their sexual partners only when they are close to orgasm. This means that they both have an orgasm together and share that special feeling which as you know feels amazing and closes the bonds of any relationship and the guy delayed ejaculation as long as she did without any problem.
And then these lovers look at their man with the awe and respect that you want too, and without feeling worthless and unable to live up to your partner’s expectations and fully satisfy them in bed.
But how can this help you start delaying ejaculation? First I want to ask you “Why do you want to last longer in bed”? It’s to satisfy your partner, right? The only problem is this “pressure to perform” vicious cycle, that downward spiral of skill and confidence that ruins sex. Well, if we can avoid this performance pressure, then it becomes a lot easier to learn to last in bed because you can learn at a pace that suits you instead of being overwhelmed by all the pressure to perform.
And if you focus on pleasing her, she’ll love you for it because you’ll probably be paying more attention to her body and making her feel fabulous than endlessly concentrating on delaying ejaculation. In fact, this can actually help you become a better lover than you would have been because of the various ways you’re stimulating her, which is probably a pleasant surprise, rather than just the normal shoving and minimal foreplay.
Never forget that women love foreplay more than men. It takes them a lot longer to get turned on than we do, so use this as a learning experience, and you’ll probably find your lover becomes a lot more playful in bed, too.
So if you do this correctly, you will have your woman screaming in ecstasy while climaxing at the same time. And she will be 1000% satisfied with your ability, which is what you want after all without all the pressure to delay ejaculation.
But let’s not forget that lasting in bed is a skill worth learning, and now it’s a skill you can learn at your own pace because this is just the beginning of your sexual revolution. There are many more wonders to explore and pleasure to give and receive. And once you start learning, you’ll be surprised how quickly you start to delay ejaculation. In fact, you may find your progress miraculous.