Do you know how to make a guy fall in love with you? You probably know how to make him want you, but love is another matter. What are the qualities that make a man go from lusting for a woman to true love? If you don’t know what they are, you’re not alone. Here are two steps you can take to work your way into his heart.
The fact is that men often confuse lust with love and when the passion starts to wane, they are ready to move on. Men have a harder time defining their emotions than women, so they can’t really tell the difference. They just know when they are ready to move on.
Women, on the other hand, tend to form emotional bonds with men they find attractive. If all a woman had to do to make a man fall in love with her was dress and act provocative, there would be no problem. That’s what it takes to make him want you, but getting him to truly love you takes a little more than that.
Make it feel good when you’re around
Of course, it is not difficult to satisfy a man sexually. But to encourage a lasting relationship, he’ll want to delay sexual gratification and build an emotional bond that will keep him coming back for more. You will have to learn how to trigger the positive emotions that make him feel good just by being around you.
Learn what matters to you. Support their hobbies and interests and get involved in as many as you can. Laugh at their jokes. Praise him when he succeeds and sympathize with him if he is defeated. If you’re always there for him at important moments in his life, he’ll learn to associate the good feelings they evoke with you.
Let the relationship progress at its own pace.
Men tend to fall in love more slowly than women, so it’s important to give him time to develop and understand how he feels about you. Even if you’ve fallen hard for him, it’s important not to try to rush the relationship. You will have to bide your time, have fun with him, have fun and let the relationship develop naturally. If you try to rush him before he’s ready, he may feel pressured and back off, which is exactly what you don’t want.
Take your time, enjoy the ride, and you will soon discover that you know how to make a guy fall for you.