We live in a world where it seems that all magic wears off over time. The same goes for the spark in our love life. We don’t want it to go out, it just happens when life and responsibilities take over us. If we don’t take control of our love lives, they won’t magically fix themselves. You must be willing to give your best and evaluate not only your sex life but also yourself.
Even if your sex life isn’t what it used to be, you’re not doomed to live with it forever. You can improve your relationship with your man and keep him not only happy and satisfied, but also yourself. One of the best ways to get your relationship back on the fast track is to go back to school. No, I’m not talking about college, I’m talking about learning new sexual techniques. Are you ready to learn how to drive him crazy?
First of all, don’t feel like you have to take on the entire burden of reviving your sex life. Be sure to let your man know that you believe that not only your sex life but also your relationship is in danger and that you want to save it. Let him know what he plans to do and ask him to try it out in college. If it means more sex, I’m sure he won’t have a problem lending a hand.
So now we come to the good part, the sex. We all love it, we all love it, but sometimes it just seems so hard to keep it fresh. Here are just a couple of suggestions to make it new again.
When was the last time you started a sexual encounter with your man? I guess most of the time he’s the one who starts things, right? So change it tonight, you’re going to bat first. Do you realize how boring and old it gets for a man to always be making the first move? He makes you feel very undesirable. that he feels good about himself, that he feels loved. That’s what you’ll do when you go after him for a change. We all want to be desired and appreciated, so remember to give it to your man from time to time.
Remind me talking about how hard it is to keep sex fresh. Well, that’s why you need to spice it up and get a little kinky. We are not talking about whips, chains or anything so extreme. But would it hurt to look at some sex toys and maybe try them out? Adding a new element to sex gives it a new dimension of fun, and that’s exactly what toys do. Or you could lay in bed and watch tasteful porn, yes they exist! Start off slow and work your way up to even naughtier levels, only going as far as you both feel comfortable.
Your sex life is a vital part of your relationship. Many people say that sex is not important, but they are wrong. It is one of the most intimate ways a man and a woman can connect with each other. We forget about the emotional attachment that comes with physical sensations. However, they are there and that is what keeps us close, so please don’t let your sex life die.