There are flirtatious girls who can get a guy’s attention for a short time, and then there are those seemingly distant girls that all the guys are drooling over having as a girlfriend. While appearances can play an important role in getting a guy’s attention, the real key is knowing how to flirt with a guy without him thinking you’re easy to get.
There is a difference between an extravagant flirtation and a charming lady. If you have the moves and the talk to get a guy to kiss the ground your feet step on, then you are a talented woman. However, if you’re having a hard time getting this guy’s attention, these tips will help you subtly flirt all the way to his heart:
- Be sweet and approachable
Guys generally like girls who are nice and kind, because it is a natural feminine characteristic. When he does something for you, always thank him with a smile. Be nice to others as well, but always give them a little extra attention, such as complimenting them as well.
Any boy would fall in love with a girl with a sense of humor. For example, if he tries to make a joke that is not really funny, you can smile at him and say something like, “I’m sure you have something more fun than that.” He may get a little angry, but that will challenge him. Guys are competitive creatures by nature and a challenge will intrigue him and make him feel like he needs to prove something to you, thus making you more special.
Displaying the correct facial expressions can really melt a man’s heart. A master of flirting knows how to play shy, look cute, and flick her lashes the right way. Give him a cute smile when he does something nice for you. Or show him your adorable version of raising an eyebrow when he makes a cheesy joke.
- It smells great and get closer to it.
Guys love it when they’re around a girl who smells sweet (but not overly scented). Try to sneak up on him when you want to ask him a question and be sure to wash your hair with a fragrant shampoo or blow dry your neck with a sweet scent. Before you know it, he will want to be by your side more often.
Making a person feel special will give them a warm and fuzzy feeling towards you. If you really want to know how to flirt with a guy, this is your best option. Every now and then, give her a genuine compliment that will make her day, and tap her lightly when you speak to her. Very soon, he will start to think more about you.
As you can see, you can certainly flirt with a guy in a cute and feminine way without dominating him with attention. Keep it simple and always make sure you look pretty and neat. He’ll be crazy if he doesn’t flirt back.