Essentially, what the following techniques are designed to do is create tension and arouse a man’s interest in you by gently pushing him away.
The old bait and switch
Ask him to tell you about a revered/sentimental childhood experience and then reflect on what he told you while relating to what he said and then, when you think the conversation is going to continue, change the subject.
This works because to remember a childhood experience, a person needs to go back in time, a long way back in time, through an invisible time zone. When they go back to that sentimental moment, they got there with you. Our formative years have a powerful effect on shaping our value systems, so this is a GREAT way to bond with a guy.
By suddenly changing the subject, you take control of the conversation at a weak moment for him, which gives you power because you reached out and then walked away. It’s the estrangement that makes him want to get closer because you’re indirectly telling him that you’re not accessible.
flirt and back off
It’s pretty self explanatory and there are plenty of ways you can flirt with a giggle and girly smile when you talk, to tease him about something like the way he cranes his neck when you stand up to touch him on the arm or the leg when you speak.
You walk away telling him you’re not that kind of girl when he touches you. She may be a bit of a hypocrite, but she will make her love you even more regardless.
Tell stories
The ability to tell stories with ease is a sign of confidence, and confidence is attractive. By telling a story, it allows you to gain insight into their world. Obviously, this is imperative to get to know each other, but it can also somehow relate your story to your values. Obviously, you must first have an idea of what these values are, but if you use strategy one before this strategy, you will get an idea of what your values are from your childhood experience.
Send mixed signals
One of the best ways to do this is to make a guy see that you’re a ‘cool girl’ by laughing with him while cracking jokes from time to time, which will make him wonder if you like him and respect him.
It is that same mechanism of attraction that will make him try harder to win you over and what you will see when you do this is double the expression of interest in you.