How often have you had a daydream about a future you wish you were experiencing? What is the difference between that dream and the life you are living? The fear of change often leaves us paralyzed and unable to move forward. However, a step forward into the unknown could result in the realization of our dreams. Our own inaction is the only thing holding us back from the life we want. Taking action is the only way to move forward turning dreams into reality.
When I entered the path of change, it sent a ripple that affected many people. I had been living in a cloud of confusion for almost five years and was afraid to be myself. One day I woke up to find that I was no longer the woman I once was. I no longer pursued the interests at the center of what I really was. As time went by, harsh circumstances locked me in a role that was destroying my soul. The day I wrote my first paragraph in ten years I felt free to be myself. As I typed each word, the cell door would open a little wider than what was locked behind it. When I completed my new article I knew there was no going back and that I had to keep growing and changing.
Change is rarely easy and can make those around you feel like you are abandoning them. They too have felt comfortable in their role and do not want anything to disturb their comfort zone. The change can be as simple as dressing differently or as complex as ending a long-term relationship. Many around you will believe that as you move forward it will mean leaving them behind. To find your true self again, this could be true.
Are you being true to yourself? Have you conformed to the perception that others have created of you? Your dreams cannot and should not be discarded. Take an hour each day to chase your dream. Try it on and test the fit. See how it feels to really live your dream. Does it make you happy? If so, now you must decide: “Am I willing to make changes to continue on a new path?”
There will be naysayers and those who will accuse you of making waves. Some of his family and friends may try to discourage him from achieving his dream. They may not want you to be yourself for fear of not knowing their place in your life. It will take courage and commitment to live your dreams and be the best person for you. Doing something that is just for you can be difficult at first. Acknowledge that what you feel is real and valid. You are worthy of following your own dream.