Is Valentine’s Day Singles’ Worst Nightmare? Everyone is celebrating love and you seem to be the only one left out? It does not have to be this way. Here is the action plan for fabulous single girls to enjoy this day.
Action 1. Release.
Get negative feelings out of the way. It’s okay to feel sad. Don’t try to sugarcoat it by pretending to be happy. But remember, being single is so much better than being stuck in a troubled relationship. If you must, give yourself 5 minutes to focus on your misery (you’ll realize how stupid that is before time is up). Check if something has changed. Then go to action 2.
Action 2. Express.
Valentine’s Day is not just about romantic relationships, it’s about BIG love. Show your appreciation for your friend, your family, your pets, yourself or the planet earth! Send Valentine’s cards to your loved ones. And remember to choose the most elegant card for you and write the reasons why you are so special and adorable. Make sure it’s big enough, because you need all the space.
Action 3. Connect.
If you are determined to get out of singlehood, put yourself there. Prince Charming is not going to come knocking on your door no matter how long you stay at home waiting. He thinks about what you are passionate about. Join an interest group and start making friends. Try meetup, find out about market adventures or groups on Facebook.
Action 4. Have fun.
There are a lot of individual parties on this day. Sign up and have fun! You will realize that there are many fish in the sea. You can find the special on this special day. (It’s an illusion, I know, but be careful what you wish for, because it could come true.)
Action 5. Reaching out to hands
If you’re not the party type, exercise is a great way to boost your energy level and put you in a good mood. Hit the gym, take a kickboxing class, try belly dancing or go swimming in your poker dot bikinis.
Action 6. Please.
Before you can love others and be loved, you must love yourself. Pamper yourself with a SPA session or immerse yourself in your own tub with music (yes, we encourage you to sing) and aromatherapy candles. Enjoy a good massage and paint your toenails fuchsia.
You can choose some actions from the list or do all of them. Who knows, this may be your ultimate bachelor’s Valentine’s Day. Celebrate it, your way.