Finding love is pretty easy for many. However, maintaining that love is the true and final test of the truth. Intimacy in a relationship stems from romance, and it takes both efforts to keep the romance alive.
For some people, the fear of falling out of love begins when they notice a lack of romance. Unfortunately, what they fail to do is put in a little effort and bring romance back to their love life. Appreciating the character of others is a key element. You and your partner may have several things that you like and have in common.
You can always point out the things you don’t like about your partner, or just accept the flaw and move on. Nobody is born perfect, right? Make sure you don’t focus on uncovering your partner’s mistakes, but on the positive things that make the other a better person, focusing on the right things to appreciate.
Communication helps foster a good relationship. Long talks about life and plans, investments and adventures will help cement the romance. Sharing is caring, never close the doors of communication.
It is also good to talk and reminisce about the past, the fun time and even those difficult times that you both went through. Avoid making your conversation a topic that focuses on you and what you want or like, but more than your partners would like or want, but directing it to include you in them.
The only thing that can end the romance is arguing. The worst thing is taking the argument to bed, which means that both of you go to bed angry and aggravating the situation. Just solve all your problems before going to sleep.
Silence is also an alternative, but not until bed. You should take the time to say or show that you still love and care before bed. A good way to keep the romance alive is to let the evening be a time for both of you to relax and enjoy each other’s company.
Show love to each other through simple expressions like a hug. It is a solid way to build a firm foundation for the love you share. Most of the silly but cute things you did when you first started dating are the fuels that will keep the romance alive. These are the things that most people tend to overlook.
Holding hands when watching your favorite movie, or surprise dances when listening to music you both love, exchanging unexpected kisses, and other silly little things are a great expression of love that will do wonders, igniting the romance.
Life is too short to argue, spread love.