Is your wife falling in love with you? She feels that way, doesn’t she? Something has changed dramatically in your marriage and it scares you. Thoughts about the future are no longer filled with imagining what it will be like to grow old with the woman you adore. Now you’re much more focused on whether or not she’s suddenly going to announce that she wants and she needs a divorce. The dynamic of any marriage changes over time and sometimes it is just the wife who becomes more involved with her own life. Before jumping to conclusions about how her wife feels or doesn’t feel about you, step back for a moment. There are some signs that she is starting to withdraw emotionally from you that you should be aware of. If he detects this in her marriage, she has every reason to be concerned about the direction of their relationship.
You can usually tell if your wife is falling in love with you if she stops saying so. Women are very expressive when they are in love and particularly married women. They share what they feel, and usually a married woman will tell her husband that she adores him or loves him at least a few times a day or week. If it has been some time since he heard those words from her wife, he is right to worry about it. She doesn’t feel as close to you anymore and therefore she hasn’t felt the need to share those feelings with you.
Has your wife started scolding or criticizing you more than usual recently? An unsatisfied woman tends to continually find fault with a man if she feels an emotional emptiness there. If he no longer makes her happy, she may also feel the need to make him unhappy. Some women are not even aware that they are doing this. They are simply in charge of pointing out what they feel is missing from her husband. If your wife has started making increasingly critical and hurtful comments about you, take it as a sign that she, in fact, loves you less.
Your wife’s body language also contains many clues as to where her heart is. A woman in love wants to be physically close to the man she adores. If your wife doesn’t want to hold your hand anymore or if she pulls away from her when you try to initiate intimacy, that’s something to worry about. Most women feel the need to have a strong emotional bond in order to feel physically comfortable with a man. If that’s not there anymore, your marriage is definitely in trouble.